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Not Your Ex Lover

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  • KOURTNi
    Lead singer, rhythm guitar, lyricist
  • JULiE
    Lead guitar, violin
  • REYA
    Bass
  • Kiki
    Drums
Not Your Ex Lover (NYXL) is a Latina all-girl band cosmically forged in the high desert of Central Oregon in the summer of 2022. After a year of “finding their sound” in a pink-lit garage, Kourtni (lead vocals, lyricist, and rhythm guitar), Julie (lead guitar and violin), Reya (bass and vocals), and KiKi (drums) are hitting the stage, bringing a unique sad-girl grunge pop vibe with an indie twist to Bend’s live music scene. Drawing inspiration from their lives, dreams, loves, and heartbreaks, NYXL infuses their music with raw emotion and relatable lyrics - all combined with a groovy rhythm that will steal your heart

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Not Your Ex Lover (NYXL) is a Latina all-girl band cosmically forged in the high desert of Central Oregon in the summer of 2022. After a year of “finding their sound” in a pink-lit garage, Kourtni (lead vocals, lyricist, and rhythm guitar), Julie (lead guitar and violin), Reya (bass and vocals), and KiKi (drums) are hitting the stage, bringing a unique sad-girl grunge pop vibe with an indie twist to Bend’s live music scene. Drawing inspiration from their lives, dreams, loves, and heartbreaks, NYXL infuses their music with raw emotion and relatable lyrics - all combined with a groovy rhythm that will steal your heart

Not Your Ex Lover
September 2024 Live Music Calendar

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Bend Oregon
December 2024
Live Music Calendar

Keep Your Head Up Bend!

Bunk+Brew

September 07, 2024

2:00pm - 10:00pm

  • So Much Closer
  • Spencer Marlyn Band
  • Rumpeppers
  • Paeonia
  • Robot Mushroom
  • Matti Joy
  • Brave New World
  • Hers & Mine
  • Mason Coats

Bend Roots Revival - Friday - Deschutes Brewery

Deschutes Brewery

September 12, 2024

All Day

  • Sweet Demon
  • GBOTS & the Journeymen
  • Shady Groove 2.0
  • 3ofWe

Bend Roots Revival - Friday - Bunk+Brew

Bunk+Brew

September 12, 2024

All Day

  • Billy & The Box Kid
  • Moody May & Texas Clam Jam
  • The Hasbens
  • Atillion
  • Mikey Bilello
  • Palo Soprano
  • Joe Estrada
  • Jason Burky
  • Quons Trio

Bend Roots Revival - Friday - Silver Moon

Silver Moon Brewing

September 12, 2024

All Day

  • Jess Ryan Band
  • Them NJ
  • Dr. Green Dreams
  • High Desert Ramblers
  • The Ambitions
  • Ukedoob
  • Amargoso
  • Stacie Dread & Mystic
  • Trance Folk Tradition
  • Darin Gentry
  • Chiggi Momo

Roots Revival

Bunk+Brew

September 13, 2024

5:30pm - 6:15pm

  • Joe Estrada

Bend Roots Revival - Friday - Domino Room After Party

Domino Room

September 13, 2024

9:30pm - 11:30pm

  • Oregon Fryer
  • Johnny Bourbon

Bend Roots Revival - Saturday - Silver Moon

Silver Moon Brewing

September 13, 2024

All Day

  • Almost
  • Astronot
  • Superball
  • Company Grand
  • Redder Than Red
  • Fractal - Jeshua Marshall
  • Sweet Motor - Jaws of Brooklyn
  • Canaan Canaan Band
  • Samuel Newman Band
  • Brother Gabe & Friends
  • Brave New World
  • John Shipe - Parade of Bad Guys
  • Richard Taelour - Jackrat
  • The Hard Chords

Bend Roots Revival - Saturday - Bunk+Brew

Bunk+Brew

September 13, 2024

All Day

  • Zipline
  • So Much Closer
  • Harris Blake Band
  • The Hands
  • Flying Caravan
  • Left on Tenth
  • Hers and Mine
  • Supernatural Beavers
  • ZORB - Jake Soto & Friends
  • Rumpeppers
  • Sunshine
  • Dean Mueller
  • Tuesday String Band

Bend Roots Revival - Saturday - Deschutes Brewery

Deschutes Brewery

September 13, 2024

All Day

  • Alicia Viani
  • Lilli Worona
  • Pete Kartsounes
  • The Critical Blues Band
  • Lost Dogs
  • Francho & Tone Band
  • The Mostest
  • Vermicious Kind
  • John Swipe & Lilly Worona
  • Erin Cole Baker Band

Zipline at Bend Roots

Bunk+Brew

September 14, 2024

2:30pm - 3:30pm

  • Zipline

Bend Roots Revival - Friday - Domino Room After Party

Domino Room

September 14, 2024

9:30pm - 11:30pm

  • Robot Mushroom
  • Spencer Marlyn Band

Bend Roots Revival - Sunday - Silver Moon

Silver Moon Brewing

September 14, 2024

All Day

  • Mari Wilson
  • Appaloosa
  • Ghost of Brian Craig
  • Linda Quan and Hello Trouble
  • Ledbetter Band
  • The Jugulars
  • Rigby Pass - Jobe Woosley
  • Tiny Violin - DJ Swell Times
  • Shirley Doomed
  • Victor Johnson
  • Huck Finn Yacht Club
  • Problem Stick

Bend Roots Revival - Sunday - Bunk+Brew

Bunk+Brew

September 14, 2024

All Day

  • Alanna Matty
  • Close 2 Dead
  • Monkey Mode
  • Paeonia - Blake & The Music
  • Bend Behakti Collective
  • Amanda Wrenn & Patrick Leonard
  • Samaras
  • VibeShiftas
  • Ryan Redding
  • Mason James

Bend Roots Revival - Sunday - Deschutes Brewery

Deschutes Brewery

September 14, 2024

All Day

  • Pete Kartsounes
  • Betsy Green & Friends
  • The Gospel According to Mark & Pat
  • Victory Swig
  • Popcorn Trio
  • Andy Armer Co.
  • Gypsy Travelers

Zipline at Worthy Brewing

Worthy Brewing

September 15, 2024

1:00pm - 3:00pm

  • Zipline