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Not Your Ex Lover

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  • KOURTNi
    Lead singer, rhythm guitar, lyricist
  • JULiE
    Lead guitar, violin
  • REYA
    Bass
  • Kiki
    Drums
Not Your Ex Lover (NYXL) is a Latina all-girl band cosmically forged in the high desert of Central Oregon in the summer of 2022. After a year of “finding their sound” in a pink-lit garage, Kourtni (lead vocals, lyricist, and rhythm guitar), Julie (lead guitar and violin), Reya (bass and vocals), and KiKi (drums) are hitting the stage, bringing a unique sad-girl grunge pop vibe with an indie twist to Bend’s live music scene. Drawing inspiration from their lives, dreams, loves, and heartbreaks, NYXL infuses their music with raw emotion and relatable lyrics - all combined with a groovy rhythm that will steal your heart

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Not Your Ex Lover (NYXL) is a Latina all-girl band cosmically forged in the high desert of Central Oregon in the summer of 2022. After a year of “finding their sound” in a pink-lit garage, Kourtni (lead vocals, lyricist, and rhythm guitar), Julie (lead guitar and violin), Reya (bass and vocals), and KiKi (drums) are hitting the stage, bringing a unique sad-girl grunge pop vibe with an indie twist to Bend’s live music scene. Drawing inspiration from their lives, dreams, loves, and heartbreaks, NYXL infuses their music with raw emotion and relatable lyrics - all combined with a groovy rhythm that will steal your heart

Not Your Ex Lover
June 2025 Live Music Calendar

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Bend Oregon
June 2025
Live Music Calendar

Dad Bods @ Sunriver Sharc

Sunriver Sharc

June 15, 2025

6:00pm - 8:00pm

  • Dad Bods

Mari and the Dream @ Worthy Brewing Summer Concert Series

June 23, 2025

7:30pm - 9:30pm

High Desert Calling Compilation Album Release Party Festival

Century Center

June 25, 2025

12:00pm - 10:30pm

  • Eric Leadbetter
  • Oregon Fryer
  • Mari Wilson
  • ZORB
  • The Rusty Frets
  • Vanderwalls
  • Maria Jackson
  • Samuel B. Newman Band
  • Decaying Matters
  • Linda Quon & Hello Trouble
  • Ian Lafky
  • Annika Hankshaw
  • Jake Soto

Linda Quon & Hello Trouble

Wildwood

June 28, 2025

7:00pm - 10:00pm

  • The Quons