Not Your Ex Lover
Members
- KOURTNi
Lead singer, rhythm guitar, lyricist - JULiE
Lead guitar, violin - REYA
Bass - Kiki
Drums
Not Your Ex Lover (NYXL) is a Latina all-girl band cosmically forged in the high desert of Central Oregon in the summer of 2022. After a year of “finding their sound” in a pink-lit garage, Kourtni (lead vocals, lyricist, and rhythm guitar), Julie (lead guitar and violin), Reya (bass and vocals), and KiKi (drums) are hitting the stage, bringing a unique sad-girl grunge pop vibe with an indie twist to Bend’s live music scene. Drawing inspiration from their lives, dreams, loves, and heartbreaks, NYXL infuses their music with raw emotion and relatable lyrics - all combined with a groovy rhythm that will steal your heart
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Not Your Ex Lover (NYXL) is a Latina all-girl band cosmically forged in the high desert of Central Oregon in the summer of 2022. After a year of “finding their sound” in a pink-lit garage, Kourtni (lead vocals, lyricist, and rhythm guitar), Julie (lead guitar and violin), Reya (bass and vocals), and KiKi (drums) are hitting the stage, bringing a unique sad-girl grunge pop vibe with an indie twist to Bend’s live music scene. Drawing inspiration from their lives, dreams, loves, and heartbreaks, NYXL infuses their music with raw emotion and relatable lyrics - all combined with a groovy rhythm that will steal your heart
Bend Oregon
June 2025
Live Music Calendar
Dad Bods @ Sunriver Sharc
Sunriver Sharc
June 15, 2025
6:00pm - 8:00pm
- Dad Bods
Mari and the Dream @ Worthy Brewing Summer Concert Series
June 23, 2025
7:30pm - 9:30pm
High Desert Calling Compilation Album Release Party Festival
Century Center
June 25, 2025
12:00pm - 10:30pm
- Eric Leadbetter
- Oregon Fryer
- Mari Wilson
- ZORB
- The Rusty Frets
- Vanderwalls
- Maria Jackson
- Samuel B. Newman Band
- Decaying Matters
- Linda Quon & Hello Trouble
- Ian Lafky
- Annika Hankshaw
- Jake Soto
Linda Quon & Hello Trouble
Wildwood
June 28, 2025
7:00pm - 10:00pm
- The Quons